Managing Expectation part 4
Last week, we discussed that when there is a relationship, there must be an expectation. Alternatively expectation arises only there is some form of relationship. Now we understand why someone is expecting from us or we are expecting something from our relationship?
Why someone is expecting from us? Because others are believing that you are capable of fulfilling their expectations.
you are expecting more from you, because subconsciously you believe that you have more potential.
In a professional environment, your boss is expecting more from you than other colleagues, because he believes you have more potential and capability to deliver.
In family life, family members are expecting more of your time with them,because they believe that you are the source of love, source of care, source of affection.
Your friend is sharing his problems with you, because he is believing that you can provide perspective or solutions to the problem.
In a nutshell, someone who is having a relationship with us, believing that we can fulfill their expectations.
If you understand this fact, Is it not previlege for you for having such a relationship in your life ????..If this is previege or a gift you got in your life, is not your responsibility to make an effort to fulfill the expectation of the relationship ??
If you internalize this insight, you will never be feel stressed on managing the expectation..You thank God for having so many people in your life believes that you can deliver, then managing expectation becomes easier… Reflect on it till next week!!!